I have engaged my thoughts couple of times about this present-day generation for some funny reasons and I have always asked myself if there could be something positive left for the coming generation to feed on.
My impression about the whole feminism idea has taken a different twist and, in this case, you could see a total digression from the feminism agenda.
In the name of feminism women are sited in various medium fighting aggressively for equal right yet the rate of abuse spanning from the home of the crusader to the last woman yet be convinced on this subject is on the rise. This is because the feminism agenda looks fine on paper but preached differently.
Per my conviction, the rate of abuse by men could decrease drastically if the true voice of feminism is well preached by the crusader to the understanding of the abusers (men).
I stand to be corrected, but I grew up to know that the feminism agenda was initiated as a voice for women in our society to have equal right and voice as men, to attain the level of education of choice, gain white color jobs, partake in politics and rule in high offices, become property and business owners, and also have opinion when necessary? if you agree with me then why have the rate of abuse become uncontrollably high.
I am a bit puzzled and it makes me feel feminism has been misrepresented because the 21st century generation of most women have a total disconnect with work and reading for a better understanding on what they can make out of life. Obviously, the reasons most young women/girls become victims of abuse. After all we end up teaching the victims to hate men in the name of feminism.
I speak boldly about women today because it looks like most women yell and talk about feminism yet lack knowledge on what it truly represents. I did not propound the feminism theory nor rate myself as an expert of the ideology that is why I am here to be educated and will be glad to have anyone share their thought with me on the subject.
I say this because about 60% of the women advocating for feminism have demonstrated sheer laziness and have the notion that their livelihood is man’s responsibility yet refuse to work. Some prefer to engage in sex trade for money, or post their nude pictures online as a prime responsibility to lure men 24/7.
Such characters are quick to leave their homes to settle with a man they are not married to. When I last checked, feminism demand respect but now feminism is seen as something negative. feminism doesn’t say “you don’t need marriage”, it means marriage should not be your ultimate goal as a woman, it means you can become anything you want even after marriage.
Now the common conversation heard among a gathering of young ladies of such class is all about men; whose boyfriend owns the latest car, the latest phone, where they were taking by their men and how hard they laugh at the other woman who is trying to set up her own business just to make money and how her boyfriend doesn’t own the latest car or phone even though he is working so hard.
Most of these young women are very vibrant on social media with all forms of abuses on their fellow women who are able to open up on their issues just to make it seem as though they are beyond perfect.
I know a lady who’s so called boyfriend beats her up almost every day but won’t let him go because of his wealth yet, she will go ahead to flaunt her fake life on social media for others to believe she has the best of life which later ends up in tears.
Is that what feminism teaches? Did feminism ever say we should ‘shout’ it but become slaves because women are too weak and lazy to work for money?
A woman’s dignity or protection is her self-earned little money. Please if I am wrong about all this or any of the above please educate me. Let’s not forget we women are the gate way to earth and we are stronger than we think. Knowledge to the next generation will be passed through us because we are the mothers of earth.
What exactly are we going to pass on to our kids with all these ways of life? Most feminist are preaching virtue but practicing vices.
I am sad I need to be honest and I am confused about these whole feminism ideologies. Is there another face to this feminism agenda? please educate me.
I am a feminist but now I am on defence!
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